I enjoy the experience of the cinema, but not the expense. On top of this, with a nine month old child, we don't get to go much any more.
In a rare occurrence my wife took our son out to meet a friend yesterday, so I lived a bachelor life again for about eight hours. I thought "I want to go to the cinema again". We've had a cinema de lux open nearby (posh leather seats, waiter service etc.) and as you can imagine it's expensive - about £13 a ticket - but I was considering it for the experience, especially since the bog standard out of town cinema was £7.50. But once I weighed up the cost of parking as well (about £4!!) I decided to take advantage of the out of town multiplex.
Big mistake. Full of kids (about five different groups) who were more interested in chatting, giggling and throwing popcorn than actually watching the film. To make it worse, their parents were with them. I was about to 'have a word' with the group nearest me when I realised this and figured if their parents were happy to site there whilst they ruin everyone else's experience they would probably be willing to bop me on the nose for daring to tell them to control their little angels.
Luckily the film was quite loud, which drowned a fair proportion of it out, but I could still see the popcorn flying.
So I wish I'd spent a bit more for a premium experience.
One thing I did notice though, is that cinemas are trying to squeeze even more cash out of us. They have started to label the seats in the middle of the auditorium as 'premium' and charging more for them. I've noticed this in several different cinemas now.
As for the cost of food and drink, I always find coffee quite reasonable at the cinema.
Onto staying in.... I do enjoy this. We were members of one of the DVD rental services and it was great to watch some films that otherwise we might not have watched, but once the little one came along we found it tough to watch them, even after downgrading our package. I must say, cancelling was easy and no hassle - nowadays you often seem to have to phone up and cancel, which annoys me.
Going out in general... I was never hugely into this anyway if I'm honest. I do wish I had more time/cash when I was younger (says the young pup...) to get out and see more bands/live music when I had the chance. But I also realise this was because I had a job with pretty unsocial hours (evenings and weekends).
I've booked tickets for We Will Rock You later in the year as a birthday present for my wife, they were about £40 for the stalls which is steep, but I suppose if it's as good as people say it will be worth the night out.
On Friday I went to see Oasis in Cardiff. The tickets for standing were £48, but when you consider there were three support acts as well as two hours of Oasis (a total of five hours of music) I thought it was cracking value.
Warm up gigs.... they can be hit and miss. I know some friends that saw Lee Evans in Swindon before one of his tours, supposedly despite a few flat gags (which he acknowledged) he was pretty much on top form. I've seen some comedians who were about to go to the Edinburgh Fringe and they too were worth the money (which was only about a tenner for four acts). I have to say though, £25 for a warm up gig is quite expensive. I'm seeing Eddie Izzard in Cardiff in November and the tickets for that were £30 each, and I know for sure that he will be on top form.